Teaching
your child tolerance not only makes moral sense, but also makes
economic sense. In this era of rapid globalization, it is likely that
your child will grow up to interact and do business with people from
vastly different cultures from different corners of the world. If your
child demonstrates a genuine respect and comfort with diversity, it will
likely expand his opportunities and success in life. Tolerance is not
simply "tolerating" differences among people, but refers to a broad
respect and appreciation of diversity. The following strategies will
teach your child to value difference, rather than fear it.
It is OK to talk about differences.
Tolerance
is not about pretending everybody is the same. Teach your child that it
is OK to recognize and discuss differences. People have different
beliefs, look differently, and have different customs. These differences
aren't good or bad, per se, they are simply different. Curiosity is
fine as long it is accompanied by an attitude of respect and not
judgment.
Expose your child to diversity.
Perhaps
the best way to develop an appreciation of diversity is through
exposure. Whether it is through school, an extracurricular activity or
travel, expose your children to different kinds of people. Be positive
about cross cultural interactions and friendships.
Bear witness to the commonalities of the human condition.
People
from all cultures have families, care for children, work hard, and
exhibit kindness and loyalty to their loved ones. So while people vary
tremendously in terms of beliefs, culture and traditions there is an
underlying humanity which unites us all. Look for points of connection
on this deeper level, and discuss them with your children.
Wise
Heart Books takes children on a magical journey of fun and discovery,
of learning and love, of understanding and sharing. Our stories show the
importance of cultivating compassion, responsibility, forgiveness,
tolerance, and many other important qualities that build strong
character, mind, and heart.
Wise
Heart Books also believe that education should be available to every
child. All the net profits from the sales of Wise Heart Books are
designated to the further development of such publications and to
support educational programs for disadvantaged children around the
world.
